When choosing or designing an engagement ring, there are endless options in terms of styles, stones, metals, and the four 4 C’s. From traditional designs to modern styles, engagement rings vary wildly, and each detail should be carefully considered to ensure their dream engagement ring suits them wonderfully.
A factor that is often unknown or overlooked is the setting of the ring and whether you choose a high-set or low-set engagement ring. Today, we’re explaining the differences between high-set and low-set engagement rings and the pros and cons of each to help you make the right choice for you.
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High Set vs Low Set Engagement Rings - What’s the Difference?
The main difference between high-set and low-set engagement rings is the distance between the stone and the finger.
The stone(s) of a high-set ring are set above the shank - there is a thin bit of gold that separates the stone(s) from the finger, meaning they are raised, allowing for a straight wedding band to slide underneath.
A low-set ring will have the stone set lower, with the bottom of the collet (the basket which holds the gemstone(s)) touching the finger, as opposed to being raised.
What is a High-Set Engagement Ring?
Sometimes called a wed fit, a high-set engagement ring features the collet and stone set above the finger.
What is a Low-Set Engagement Ring?
A low-set engagement ring is the opposite of a high-set, where the stone(s) are placed closer to the skin. This means the stone(s) in low-set rings don’t ‘stick out’ as much as a high-set ring.
Pairing Wedding Bands with High vs. Low Set Rings
How high-set and low-set engagement rings pair with wedding bands also differs. This is a key thing to consider when choosing an engagement ring, as the setting you choose will influence what type of wedding band you will pair it with.
Pairing high-set engagement rings with wedding bands
Since high-set engagement rings hold the stone above the finger, the shape of the band against the skin is straight, allowing for a straight, ‘normal’ wedding band to effortlessly slot beneath it. This is why high-set rings are sometimes referred to as ‘wed fit’, as they allow for a more traditional, straight wedding ring to fit beneath it without any gaps.
Pairing low-set engagement rings with wedding bands
The collet in low-set styles sits against the skin in the shape of the stone(s) in the ring. This means that, unlike high-set rings, a straight wedding band will not sit as closely to it when stacked underneath. Because of this, many prefer to choose a curved wedding band to ensure minimal gaps when their wedding ring and engagement rings pair snugly together, creating a more seamless look.
This is not to say that you cannot choose a straight wedding ring with a low-set engagement ring - it is down to personal preference! Some like (or don’t mind) a gap between their rings, but this is something to consider when choosing an engagement ring.
Bespoke wedding rings to fit your engagement ring
If choosing a low-set engagement ring, it is a good idea to consider a bespoke wedding ring if you’d like a seamless, elegant pairing. At Wild Fawn, we love bringing your ideas to life, and following your engagement, we can design your wedding ring to perfectly fit beneath the shape of your low-set style using a 3D print. During the easy bespoke process, you can also add any other finishes, embellishments, and engraving you would like to make it uniquely yours.
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High-Set vs Low-Set Engagement Rings - How to Choose
There is no ‘better’ setting than the other when it comes to engagement rings, as it is mostly down to personal preference on the aesthetic of the ring. However, there are some practical pros and cons to take into consideration when deciding between high-set and low-set rings - if you like how both look and are still unsure, read on to discover more differences between the two…
Pros and Cons of High-Set Engagement Rings
Many recognise high-set engagement rings as a more traditional style, and so they are suitable for those wanting a classic, timeless design. A high setting also suits the popular solitaire style (in which the ring has one single stone), allowing the stone to be the star of the ring. Because high-set rings are set away from the finger, some say they show off the stone more, as more light can pass through it.
A high-set ring can come with some possible disadvantages - with the stone(s) being more exposed and protruding away from the hand more than a low-set style would, they are more susceptible to damage and are more likely to ‘catch’ on clothes or other fabric. For this reason, high-set rings aren’t recommended for those with manual jobs, or should be removed when at work to reduce the risk of snagging or damage.
At Wild Fawn, our high-set rings are made to be as protective as possible to minimise catching and damage, meaning they are suitable for everyone if high-set is your preference. We also offer care advice for your ring, plus a 3-year warranty. You can read more about this here.
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Pros and Cons of Low-Set Engagement Rings
The main benefit of choosing a low-set engagement ring is that they’re considered to be a wearable, protective style. With the stone(s) being set lower down to the finger, they do not stick out as much as a high-set might, meaning they are more sheltered from damage and less likely to catch. Many also favour a low-set ring as they can often have a more vintage look to them, but this depends on the stones and overall design.
In terms of potential cons of low-set rings, some say that, especially when bezel set, they can slightly dim the prominence of the centre stone due to being encased in the setting. This is not always the case, and depends on the quality, cut, colour, and type of stone and final design. Secondly, and as previously mentioned, a low-set ring might require a curved or bespoke wedding ring if a snug pairing is the end goal, so a low-set ring would not be suitable for those opposed to a curved wedding ring.
We hope this guide has helped differentiate high-set and low-set engagement rings, and you’re closer to choosing the perfect engagement ring. You can discover our collection of ready-to-ship and made-to-order ethical engagement rings online now - they are made with love in our London workshop using ethically-sourced sapphires, lab-grown diamonds, recycled metals, and sustainable practices. Or if you’re looking to design your own, book a free consultation to discuss your dream bespoke engagement ring today - we can't wait to meet you.
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